hmmmm shall make some commentx with regards of r/s here. sth supposed to be so simple yet so complicated. some ppl will feel that loving some1 means u hafta stead with him/her. i myself prefer the unexpected joy and care when an-lianing some1. =p as 4 a KID at 17 larhz.. anywae happi children dae to ppl out there, i left tt out in previous entry.. when u an lian some1 bahx. u do not expect anything from tt person, is like juz a urge to care. a smile or a word from the person will send u smiling. though i muz sae feeling does goes awae if one do nt ba wo. but at least give the feeling chance to mature. going straight into it may bring happiness in the begining but the rest is kinda hard to sae. love is a dong li nt something u trying hard to do.
OK part 2. 奢求得不到的=贪念.. kinda bahx. when SOME (maybe mi2 =p) have the want to go on a stead the initial stand is juz off.. do u realli want him/her to be happy or u urself be happy. let go if u are nt the person that can give him/her wht tt is wanted. if u still cant 4get the love, be as a friend but do not eva give pressure to the person. will make meeting gan ga for both. so.. juz stay by her side. giving care with a limit of cause. but at least u noe the person is happy. as it says.. mian qiang shi mei xing fu de. kinda er herm phrase but itx true. IF the person wan stead too then congrats go to part 3.
part3. STEADING. how ta commit.. hmmm tt shall be simple if u realli love some1 bahx. ever wonder why parentx work work work juz 4 the house. ttx responsibility yes.. but i shall sae itx more of the love. hahaz kinda far from the thought of ppl like us since we are onli steading nt married all tt... yeah.. so steading have fewer responsibility. But y ppl cant even manage.. if u feel u are nt ready for it.. dun get into it. though ohh wellx such thingx can onli be learn from experience bahx =s. juz bare in mind dun ever sae.. who ask u do this do that, u nid nt have done tt( as in quarrel tt kind, nt out of care that kind). ttx will kinda mark the end of a r/s. marking the care and love given as nt needed. who cud still continue commiting after that.
TO BE CONTINUE...
reply tags nxt time.. =) commentx bout this post nt needed as i am living in a world of my own =p. ya dunwan debate bout these stuff here
BTW shall change my b4 stand gong ye man wang fei is NICE.. watched 16/24 yep some realli touching part. but expecting a poor ending bahx.. since all climax are like long gone.. lolx.. shall review soon